Subtractive happiness: What’s left over when everything is cleared out of the way

Subtractive happiness. Once again it comes back to the topic of happiness, what it means to be happy, content, satisfied, pleased. The feeling that life is good, happy to live my life. We all want this feeling. And sometimes it feels like it’s a chase after happiness. It’s a hunt. We feel good sometimes, and […]

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Self-confidence is self-trust: Become a person you could trust

Confidence. The word, the origin of the word, literally means “with faith” or “with trust”, “being with faith”, “being with trust”. And I like imagining this word with that in mind, as a way of really picturing the essence of what this feeling is about. Feeling confident in somebody means that you can feel trust.

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Treat yourself the way you would treat others: Egotistical altruism and the inverse golden rule

We hear about the golden rule. We’ve all heard this. “Treat others the way that you would like to be treated.” And this can be kind of a remedy against selfishness. But it seems like it can also be taken in the other direction, an inverse of the golden rule: “Treat yourself the way you

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